by Carrie Davis September 30, 2020 4 min read

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It’s only natural that you want to go all out in order to throw your pregnant fiancée the best birthday surprise ever. But you know what? It’s not always necessary to go to the end of the world in order to prepare the most romantic and thoughtful present/experience for your loved one. As long as it comes from your heart and clearly shows that you’ve put a lot of thought into it, your fiancée is bound to love the surprise you prepare for her. That said, if you’re in dire need of some nice ideas for this special occasion, keep on reading.

Give Her Something Pregnancy-Related

If your spouse-to-be is in the early stages of pregnancy, chances are that she still needs to get a bunch of different products that will make this whole experience more comfortable and enjoyable. Fortunately for you, this gives you a plethora of options to surprise her for her birthday with a practical and meaningful gift.

One of the most popular gifts for the expecting moms is undoubtedly the pregnancy body pillow as it helps the ladies keep the pregnancy pains at bay. There are also the special maternity pajamas that are designed to facilitate nursing, provide extra comfort, and generally last a long time. Bellyphones have become very popular recently as well as they allow the parents to play music for their unborn child easily. And if your fiancée worries about the negative influence of WiFi radiation and EMF waves, you can get her a protective belly band.

A Meaningful Piece of Jewelry

A great gift that is bound to surprise and overjoy your pregnant fiancée can be a special piece of jewelry, typically a necklace, with a strong and powerful meaning behind it. These days, it’s possible to order customized pendants that will feature important moments of your life, and you can do the same for your future family. As such, a family pendant depicting this exciting time of your life can become a true heirloom for generations to come. Just make sure to choose the right material and color that your fiancée prefers when it comes to jewelry.

A Romantic and Wholesome Dinner

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The surprise you prepare doesn’t have to be focused on a specific gift per se, but more on the gesture itself. In that respect, your fiancée will definitely appreciate you preparing a nice romantic dinner for the two of you. You can order or cook the foods that she enjoys eating, especially now that she’s pregnant, play the music you both love, prepare some cranberry juice instead of wine so that you can sip it from the wine glasses, decorate the table with romantic candles, and maybe even add some extra touches such as flowers, chocolates, and so on.

Show Initiative with Baby Responsibilities

No one knows what to expect as they prepare to welcome a new family member into their life. Chances are both you and your fiancée are very nervous and maybe even anxious about the responsibilities and tasks you’re about to deal with. In that respect, it would be an amazing idea to surprise your pregnant fiancée for her birthday with well-done research and information that can help you choose the best things for your child. That said, you can try creating a birth plan on your own, thus making the final decision-making a lot easier for your fiancée. From a list of the best hospitals/clinics to blood cord bank information, your fiancée will certainly appreciate this gesture and the initiative you took to make the whole process of welcoming the baby smoother and less challenging for her. For a first-time mom, this may as well be the best birthday surprise ever.

A Weekend Getaway

In case your fiancée can still move with more flexibility, a great birthday surprise idea would involve a romantic weekend getaway for the two of you. Of course, this is all about making your fiancée enjoy her birthday to the fullest, so make sure that you book a reservation at a place that offers plenty of pregnancy-friendly activities, such as spas, massages, and so on. Most importantly, make sure that your fiancée has no important plans scheduled for the weekend you choose so that this surprise doesn’t end up stressing her instead. In general, check out the best spots that are relatively near you so that you don’t have to travel to your destination for too long, and you can avoid making your pregnant future wife uncomfortable.

In the end, the best answer will come to you as you take the time to think about what likes and interests your fiancée has as well as the way she feels at the moment, both physically and mentally. A great birthday surprise doesn’t have to cost a lot of money or require you to get to your wit’s end in order to be meaningful and amazing. 

Carrie Davis is a writer and blogger from Europe. She is very passionate about family, fashion, health and lifestyle. Carrie writes mostly lifestyle articles, but also you’ll find her in home improvement and other niches.

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